The difference between wanting and willing

A lot of times we are locked in our own thoughts which prevent us from moving towards our goal.  Sometimes the very thing that holds us back is the very thing that can set us free.  So then it boils down to how bad you want to push forward to reach your goal. 

Wanting and willing might sound like the same thing, yet they are worlds apart. Take, for example… …the thought, “I want to be slim.” This want can be so strong, so vibrant, and so desperate that it stays on our mind, always in your thoughts, always on the back burner. I know that being slim is something I truly want. But will wanting this make me slimmer? No, it won’t. Because no matter how strong the wanting is, the desire remains unfulfilled until a new ingredient is added.

What is that new ingredient?

It’s willingness. I might want to be slim, but until I’m willing to do what it takes to get there, nothing changes.

Willing and wanting are two different states of mind. One gets us to do things; the other keeps us thinking about doing them. One is active, and the other is passive.

Time for a reality check!

Nothing is impossible to the willing mind. However, if you find that the “want is strong but the will is weak,” don’t torment yourself.  It’s not a matter of IF you will break through; it’s simply a matter of WHEN.

Situations occur based on our thoughts and impressions about them.  Its how we see things; a.k.a. perspective.  Nothing is impossible if you are willing to go for it.  Part of going after what you want and getting it is because of what you're willing to do to make it happen.

But just know that nothing will change until you're ready to let go.

Life is an experiment.  The challenges we face help us realize what we're made of and gives us a chance to overcome these obstacles.  When you can get through, then you've experience growth.  Never stop learning, never stop changing and remember keep being you!

If you're willing to take the next step and move towards your goals, consider joining my support group to gain accountability.  Email me at maria365@aol.com for more info.

Eight things I learned from my run this morning

This morning I decided to go out for my weekly run in spite of not feeling well.  The past 2 days, I've been feeling yucky for lack of a better description.  I am definitely fighting something off.  Possibly a virus, without fever, having a massive headache.  I was curious to see if my run would help me shake the feeling. 

So, here's what I learned:

1.  Push yourself even when you don't feel like it, it will be worth it.

2.  I will not melt when it rains.

3.  A short run is better than no run.

4.  Hearing the right music will make you run faster.

5.  Don't break your stride, just keep a consistent, steady pace.

6.  Going against the wind feels really awesome.

7.  Next time carry ID in case I collapse.

8.  A good run puts things in the right perspective.

So overall, my stats were OK.  My past 2 runs I hit the 5 mile mark, but cut today's run short.  My goal is to continue to improve with each workout.

Big 5 Goals

Typically on a Sunday night, I start to think about what needs to get done for the week.  I love Mondays and have been inspired to narrow down my focus.

I wanted to share what I'm concentrating on for the week of 4/15/13:

1) Wrap up Mod 4 w/Test to get 100%, start Mod 5 (Integrative Nutrition online education)

2) Visit program to assess future placement regarding post-High School transition plan (special needs) for daughter for this coming September.

3) Learn and roll out new lesson PiYo Strength by Sunday 4/21 

4)Turbokick Certification Training 4/20

5) Get 3 Strength Workouts in this week (maybe a little ambitions but I'm shooting for it; 3 cardio sessions with one of them being a run).

These are my top 5 along with other ancillary goals (not mentioned) that must get done in order to keep the flow going.

"Within you is the power to do anything...with confidence and inspiration, you unlock the possibilities."  All you have to do is believe that you can and you're half way there.

Knowing what you want to accomplish and plotting out what you want to achieve can serve as a roadmap.  Let's face it, if you want to get somewhere you have to know how you're going to get there!  By taking forward motions in what ever it is that you are looking to pull off takes planning, determination, self-motivation and a sprinkle of perserverance.  

Last night when I drafted my Big 5, it gave me such clarity that I actually had peace among the chaotic schedule Mondays typically bring.

If you're like me you regularly plug into Social Media like Twitter, Facebook and YouTube.  Its easy to connect with others who offer so much inspiration and motivaiton.  But remember, inspiration is a two way street. So Take heart: "There are people in your life whom you unknowingly inspire simply by being you."  How cool is that?  Very!!!!