Wanting and willing might sound like the same thing, yet they are worlds apart. Take, for example… …the thought, “I want to be slim.” This want can be so strong, so vibrant, and so desperate that it stays on our mind, always in your thoughts, always on the back burner. I know that being slim is something I truly want. But will wanting this make me slimmer? No, it won’t. Because no matter how strong the wanting is, the desire remains unfulfilled until a new ingredient is added.
What is that new ingredient?
It’s willingness. I might want to be slim, but until I’m willing to do what it takes to get there, nothing changes.
Willing and wanting are two different states of mind. One gets us to do things; the other keeps us thinking about doing them. One is active, and the other is passive.
Time for a reality check!
Nothing is impossible to the willing mind. However, if you find that the “want is strong but the will is weak,” don’t torment yourself. It’s not a matter of IF you will break through; it’s simply a matter of WHEN.
Situations occur based on our thoughts and impressions about them. Its how we see things; a.k.a. perspective. Nothing is impossible if you are willing to go for it. Part of going after what you want and getting it is because of what you're willing to do to make it happen.
But just know that nothing will change until you're ready to let go.
Life is an experiment. The challenges we face help us realize what we're made of and gives us a chance to overcome these obstacles. When you can get through, then you've experience growth. Never stop learning, never stop changing and remember keep being you!
If you're willing to take the next step and move towards your goals, consider joining my support group to gain accountability. Email me at maria365@aol.com for more info.
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